so I'm hell worried about my friend.
She was going out with this guy last year and they were in love, more deeply then ever.
Then they split cause they argued, butt its nearly a year later and my friend feels like she can't handle commitment. She runs away whenever 'serious relationship' is even mention.
I'm not telling her to get over it.
I just want to know if she's okay.
Chances are she’s more afraid to become attached to someone rather then commitment itself. If not that, it may just be the risk of getting hurt that frightens her most. Through time she’ll get better, but things like this aren’t simple to get over. I know you want to be there for her, but it’s not up to you. She needs to get through this herself, but your love and support might help too.
hi. I'm totally and utterly in love with my best guy friend. He likes a different girl, this girls best friend likes him. this girl had sex with him, behined her best friends back. and its so cliche, but I love him, i don't know what to do. he is amazing, i can tell him everything and anything, i know all his secrets and he knows MOST of mine, not this one obviously, i wish he would wake up and see that this bitch is only causing him pain, i wish he would relise i've been there with him through everything and shes just taking him away, vecause she prettier, skinnier and more beautiful obviously, i'm from perth. nobody knows i love him.
I know it wouldn’t be the exact same, but I’ve been there. You get this sort of pressure in your chest, almost like you took a huge breath and now you’re being slowly decompressed. (I didn’t intend for that to rhyme at all by the way)
I know it’s hard, but I’d suggest you tell him. I won’t promise it’ll work out, but that horrible feeling will go away and you’ll finally be able to move on. Atleast, that’s what happened to me.
Sorry if that didn’t help, or if you didn’t actually want any to begin with.